The female G-spot is legendary, but what about the male one? Turns out there is one too. In this article, we'll tell you where it is and how to properly stimulate it.
What is the male G spot
Oh yes, the male G-spot is real. This is not fiction and not an attempt to attract as many readers as possible. Another question is what is more correct to call it the P-spot. And for the majority of the general public, it is generally known as the prostate.
The prostate is located between the base of the penis and the rectum, a walnut-sized gland that a man needs to produce sperm. The secret is that there are many nerve endings in the prostate, which makes it an ideal spot for maximum pleasure.
By the way, this is confirmed by research: scientists have found that prostate orgasm causes 12 muscle contractions, while penile orgasm - only 3-5 contractions. In other words, if you connect the prostate to the sexual game, a man can have an orgasm two (or even three) times stronger than usual.
How to prepare for a survey
Many men are full of prejudices associated with anal sex. Although prostate stimulation, of course, cannot change a heterosexual's orientation (and if it can, then he's not that heterosexual after all). Therefore, if you want to look for the P-spot, you first need to get your partner's consent. Also, experts advise telling in detail what you plan to do so that he can make an informed decision.
As the anus does not produce natural lubrication, it is important to have a water-based lubricant on hand (preferably unscented and tasteless, so as not to accidentally irritate the skin). Also, be sure to file your nails to avoid damaging the delicate area, or at the very least use a glove as a barrier.
pacing rules
So now you know where the P-spot is and your man doesn't mind trying. What is the next? It can be difficult for beginners to decide on the correct actions on their own, so adopt the following techniques:
- "come here" movement.Making movements with your index finger, as if asking someone to come, you can stimulate the prostate gland gently enough so as not to frighten your partner, but at the same time actively enough to give him new sensations. Start slowly and then increase the speed.
- Circles and movements.Circular and swinging movements also work well, and their speed should also be increased gradually. Remember that putting too much pressure on the prostate can make you want to go to the bathroom, so it's great for a man to empty his bladder before sex.
- Sex toys.If you don't want to go anywhere with your finger, but want to experiment, use anal game massagers. With them, in the same way, you can vary the speed and type of vibration, so that the partner does not miss anything, but vice versa.
In conclusion, we remind you once again that the parts of the body do not have a sexual orientation, so a couple can safely have anal sex in both directions. And we note separately that if in the process the partner says that he does not like it and needs to stop, then you should listen to him. In the end, we are all different. You can try it the next time you're ready again, but for now, do something you always enjoy.